by Richard Perry and Jeff Schreifels | Jun 8, 2015 | Connections, Consensus, Influence, Personalization | Donor-Centered, Major Gifts, Moves Management, Uncategorized
Peer pressure, group think, what others think – all situations where “what others are doing or saying” are powerful motivators in all areas of life. I have always struggled to say what I really think, or be who I really am. Why? Because it matters to me what people...
by Richard Perry and Jeff Schreifels | Jun 5, 2015 | Authority, Connections, Influence, Personalization | Donor-Centered, Major Gifts, Moves Management, Uncategorized
There is no doubt that authority figures carry a lot of weight in our lives. Just put any kind of “uniform” on a person, and suddenly they become bigger than life. That goes for a police officer or a pilot, a doctor or a nurse, even a priest or a nun. Toss the...
by Richard Perry and Jeff Schreifels | Dec 3, 2014 | Influence, Job search | Impact, Major Gift Officers, Major Gifts, Power
Part of a series: The Role of Money, Position & Power in Major Gifts He was used to power and powerful people. He called me from New York to talk about the position we had open, and the conversation took a twist that he did not expect. This was back in the days...
by Richard Perry and Jeff Schreifels | Dec 1, 2014 | Attitude, Influence, Job Position, Money | Major Gifts, Power, Teamwork
Part of a series: The Role of Money, Position & Power in Major Gifts I have seen it happen so many times. A very successful person, bored with the familiarity of their job and plagued by many conflicting desires, wants another place in the organization,...
by Richard Perry and Jeff Schreifels | Nov 26, 2014 | Attitude, Influence, Job Description, Money, Power | Development Directors, Leadership, Major Gifts
I’ve had a very interesting personal journey with money, position and power. I was in 7th grade when I got caught stealing money from the student council store. It was a humiliating and embarrassing situation. I got fired from a job in my early twenties for trying to...