Some people may think that a fundraiser’s job is to get donors to say “yes.” But that’s not accurate. As fundraisers, our job is not to pressure donors toward any specific action, but to align with the donor on where they are, and what matters to them.
So when you do all the work of preparing for an ask, and then the donor says no, don’t treat this like a failure. You have an opportunity to deepen your relationship with this donor if you remain curious about what is going on for them and honor the impact they’ve already made through their giving.