THE VERITUS REPORT
THE VERITUS REPORT
We often think that when a donor doesn’t want to talk to us, it must be because they’re busy or uninterested. But the reality may be very different.
Here are some other factors that may explain why a donor is not responding:
The first is a lack of clarity on purpose or movement in the relationship. The MGO calls and thanks the donor, asks them questions about their lives to get to know them, and may share a bit about their programs. Then the next call is the same, and sometimes the program updates seem to go on and on and are not related to the donor’s passions and interests.
The donor is not sure of the purpose of each call and is waiting with a tight defensiveness for when the MGO is going to ask for money. Or maybe the MGO never does ask; it just continues to be a repeated stewardship call. How would you feel? Would that be of value to you? Would you want to keep meeting with that fundraiser?
The second is that donors expect to be treated like an ATM machine. The donor may get a thank you call and then nothing else until there is a request for a gift. This happens in annual or membership models often, but can also happen in major gifts programs. The donor hears from the organization once a year when it’s time to give their gift. They give the obligatory amount and move on. This is transactional. This does not lead to meaningful to transformational giving.
Most likely, donors have experienced both of the above scenarios, and when you couple that with high turnover (every 15-18 months on average) in fundraiser positions, there’s this constant wash and repeat “get to know you” dance with each new MGO at each organization they give to. That sounds exhausting! And it can be frustrating and devaluing especially when the previous MGO didn’t track info well in their CRM so the donor is being asked the exact same questions they were asked one year ago by the previous MGO. No wonder donors don’t really want to engage and meet with us. Would you?
I wanted to talk about the donor’s experience first, because it is helpful to walk in their shoes for a moment and realize they have some very legitimate reasons to feel resistant. If we are going to change the donor relationship to one of a partnership through meaningful connections, we need to understand that it will be a process of changing expectations and building trust over time.
Before we go any further, let’s define a meaningful connection. A meaningful connection is any interaction and communication with the donor that moves the relationship forward. This can happen in any manner including text, LinkedIn, video, phone, traditional mail, and, yes, in a donor meeting.
What does it mean to “move the relationship forward”?
No matter if you’re new or you’re just seeking to change how you relate to your donors, here are some important steps you can take to change donor expectations and build trust:
What I hear from MGOs who really step into creating meaningful connections is that donors respond with surprise and appreciation. They have gotten thank you cards or phone calls saying, “I never had an MGO treat me with such respect, and I am so honored.” What fun! How exciting would it be to get to take the donor down a whole new path of experience with your organization? This is the power of having meaningful connections with your donors. I encourage you to take one donor today and think about how you can engage them in this way.
Karen
If you’re focused on the wrong metrics, you’re creating an environment where your fundraisers are scrambling just to hit a number – instead of trying to build deeper relationships with donors. To foster more meaningful connections with donors, you have to let go of metrics that are designed to “manage” without actually managing your fundraiser.
Gina Hedberg discovered her career in fundraising through an unconventional route. After several years practicing optometry in Oregon, she came to a place where she just knew it was time for a change.
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