We are often asked our opinion on what the ideal relationship should be between the leader of the development department (the DOD) and the MGO.  Here is what we think, organized by category of work on the left and the two roles to the right.  Read this and I will continue my commentary at the end:
DOD-MGO chart 2013-Jun10
There is one very important point in this chart – the DOD needs to be vitally involved in the work of the MGO!  Jeff and I find that this is usually not the case, especially on items 6 & 7: program information and offer/ask development.  These two critical areas are the lifeblood of a good major gift program.
You can have a very talented MGO and a willing and capable donor and miss the whole thing for lack of program information.  Be sure to find a way to get this important information.
As relates the whole list, often a capable and professional DOD will delegate some of this work to a subordinate, an agency like ours, or even both.  If that is the DOD’s preference, then work with those delegates to make sure the work you need accomplished gets done.
Take a look again at the 15 categories of work I have listed above and identify the areas where your DOD, your agency, or both could be more helpful. Then, if you are comfortable, find a way to talk to them about it, positioning your narrative as “It would really help me if you could X”.
The important thing is to make sure you are covered and all the critical areas of major gifts in your shop are operating efficiently and effectively.
Richard